‘How could you lie to me about your chest’: Husband Accuses Wife of Lying About Having Implants So She Files for Divorce

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Briana Viser • Writer and Editor
Mar 26, 2024 12:00 PM EDT

Welcome internet enthusiasts. We're here to discuss relationships, lying, and women's bodies. In relationships, there's nothing more jarring than having a lie revealed to your partner. Disrupting the constitution of your relationship, regardless of the lie, can be a huge shock and end up creating trust issues that could take years to resolve. 

Outside of trust and betrayal, believing your partners when they tell you the truth is also crucial to a happy and healthy relationship. Especially if the truth has to do with their body and whether they've had plastic surgery done. As women we know how our bodies feel as women, but a man unfortunately might not be so aware. He might take his paranoia with him, accusing his partner of having implants, augmentations, or any number of things. It's important to respect your partner, and that means believing them about their natural body. Insisting you, as a man, know more or better about your partner's body than they do is just another way to oppress them.

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    Posted by u/Kitchen General8618 1 day ago AITAH for wanting a divorce because my husband insisted that my were fake?
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    i (30f) do have very large a 38G to be specific. I've been with my husband (33m) for about 10 years and while we have no children together we are happy. recently hes been checking out my body more than before and i don't mean in a 'let me take you to bed' kind of way its more of a 'what
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    could you be hiding' kind of way. now i am by no means skinny i am 5'5 and 180 pounds nowhere near as good as it could be but i really dont have any motivation and dont care as long as i dont look like i haven't showered in months
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    and choose to be like that. now i have a multitude of scars on my body and my husband noticed. one is under my armpit which i got from running up the stairs with my friend and scraping it against the corner of the railing in my old house, the second one in not even sure
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    where it came from, its thin though so id assume from my childhood cat but it goes down my side about 4 inches and on my rib cage. my husband as been getting into more shows about spouses lying to their partners about things which i do enjoy watching myself.
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    my husband randomly came up to me and started feeling up on my which isn't out of the ordinary but still random. i asked him what he was doing and he said how could you lie to me like that. i asked about what and he said my . I said my are real what are you talking about? he said no their not
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    and that i have two scars by my that clearly show i had a job. i told him that's not how it works and usually they cut under the for that. he said they cut on the side as well and that im a lier for not telling him.
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    i told him i wasn't lying and that he was being weird. que an argument about them and i left with our cats to my friend's house, the exact friend I'd gotten hurt with. i explained what happened to her and she called my husband and yelled at him, his mother also yelled at him
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    for that but his dad is on his side. after i agreed to come back home he said he'd forgive me if id just admit that they were fake. i told him that they weren't and that you'd seen me when i was skinny and could tell it was because of my weight gain. he bring up the time i had to
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    go to my home state and stay for 6 months because of my grandmother who sadly passed away. my family does eat a lot of fattening foods and when i left for home i was 125 and when i came back i was almost 150. those eating habits transferred over to my home life and i never
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    really got back into my healthy eating life style. he continued to pester me about my and so i told him i wanted a divorce, or separation at least. he back peddaled and begged me not to but i made up my mind. he called my numerous times after id left for a week crying
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    and begging me to come home. id told him no and that if he couldn't leave it alone i wouldn't come back. he started throwing insulting names as me to which i hung up. now his friends and girlbest friend are calling me an of wanting to divorce over a simple issue.
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    SO AITAH?
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    spider389 1 day ago He's been you with 10 years why is he now asking if they're fake.
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    adventuresinnonsense 1 day ago My great aunt knew me my entire life and then, suddenly, in my twenties, decided I had had lip fillers done. She insisted. Wouldn't believe anyone saying these are
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    the same lips I've had my entire life. In her defense, she was well in her 70s and her brain had started to be affected by Parkinsons (or the meds for it, I'm not really clear which).
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    So idk what the husband's excuse is
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    Nyaehmm 1 day ago Sounds like someone was jealous of your natural beauty
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    Nichole-Michelle · 1 day ago When I was in my early 20s and at my sisters wedding, my grandmother pulled me aside and told me "everyone" in the family knew I was anorexic. Like I was thin but had killer
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    muscle tone and ate alllll the time. She just kept insisting. It was so weird man.
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    the_purple_goat . 1 day ago Lol and how could you not tell by first feel. I wonder if this post is even genuine.
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  • 22
    arianrhodd 1 day ago Because he's only recently been sucked down the red- pill rabbit hole on the internet about how all women are liars. Apparently bought in hook, line, and sinker. Dang algorithms.
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    LonelyOctopus24 · 1 day ago • His dad sided with him? Mother of Christ, the stupid apple doesn't fall far from the stupid tree
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    Magdovus 1 day ago Simple issue? First he calls you a liar, then doubles down and refuses to listen to your friend and demands YOU apologise? This guy isn't worthy of your …. NTA.
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